Getting Beyond 'Respect Girls'

A little over a year ago, The New York Times published its explosive report of sexual harassment allegations against movie mogul Harvey Weinstein, and in doing so, opened the floodgates to similar accusations against other public figures. In the case of Brett Kavanaugh, parents and their children watched the whole thing unfold in the media, some of it on live T.V. — along with his confirmation to the U.S. Supreme Court.

The events of the last year may have changed the public conversation around sexual discrimination and misconduct, but Peggy Orenstein, a New York Times Magazine contributor, reporter and author of several books on gender roles, says the private ones need to change as well. Many parents are still reluctant to talk frankly about sex and consent with their children, but as she told WNYC's Jami Floyd, it's not only necessary for both girls and boys; it's a critical part of raising ethical sons.

"What I hear a lot of times from boys is that the extent of the conversation they've had with their parents is 'Respect girls,' and that's about the end of it," Orenstein said. "It's like saying, when you're learning how to drive, 'Don't run over any little old ladies,' and then handing you the keys to the car. Of course you don't want to run over any little old ladies, but you don't know how to drive."

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