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Life With Asperger’s Syndrome
Monday, December 17, 2007
When John Elder Robison was growing up, he was unable to recognize common social cues and facial expressions. When he was in his 40s, he was finally diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome. Now he says that Asperger’s is not a disease to be cured, but a way of being that needs understanding and encouragement from others. His new memoir is Look Me in the Eye.
Look Me in the Eye is available for purchase at amazon.com
Weigh in: We’d like to hear from people who have Asperger’s, or who know someone who has it. How have you learned to navigate the social world?
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My son has this condition. It has been very hard for him at school many times. One of the issues is his inability to understand joking, even with me. Nor does he understand satire.
On the plus side, he does not follow the latest trends (he thinks that's stupid) and he is not effected by peer pressure.
I'm looking forward to hearing what your guest has to say and what we can expect in his future.
We fear that he will not be able to cope outside if he moves out. He still has not expressed a desire to learn to drive.
Thank you for this program.
my five year old son was diagnosed with asperger's syndrome around his third birthday. from when he was 6 months old i knew he wasn't typical and now i had a name. the early intervention and therapy he has received first from the State of New York and now from the Bedford School district has made all the difference in his ability to handle himself in social situations and within himself. i read "look me in the eye" and it gave me hope for my son's future which is looking bright. aspergian's are very special people.
I am a 57 year old women with Aspberger's. I learned to navigate the social world first by watching movies and imitating the behavior of the woman in the movies.
Leonard, sorry to disagree with u but Jerry Lewis is the most obnoctious guest you've had.
Great interview and great book. Thanks for asking such pertinent questions especially about the literalism of aspergers and the strengths of other functions of the brain. Interesting for all that he has learned to compensate, and his great grasp of the English language, that the sarcasm and "embarrassing" jokes cannot be translated into humor. There are so many other positive talents of the mathematical, engineering mind, I guess that can certainly be forgiven. That he is so introspective and can give us all an alternative viewpoint of a different way of thinking and reasoning is truly remarkable.
I had Asperger's Syndrome back when it was only playing small clubs for beers; it seems to have become a hit disease, and now I wonder if I'm just obnoxious and selfish, since I don't like being connected to the fashionably ill.
I hope that this episode will be posted as a Podcast.
After listening to a couple of programs on The Infinite Mind (on wnyc) and now Leonard's program on Asperger, I'm quite convinced that I grew up as an undiagnosed Aspergeran... it explains a lot of what I went through growing up, too bad it was 50 years too late to do anything about it.
I got through the teen years by withdrawing into ham radio, where I could interact by 'remote control' (much as teens do these days with the internet and text messaging). And AV Club, of course. And volunteering for Civil Defense and such, where my interactions were mostly with adults.
From the time I left for college until this day, I have lived essentially alone -- with some "arms length" friendships and associations, but no interest or need for dependence on anyone else.
Anyway, it is good that Aspergers is being discussed openly on radio shows these days; perhaps many young people will be helped along because of it.
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