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A Brother’s Struggle with Mental Illness

Friday, November 16, 2007

Novelist, poet, and psychotherapist Paul Pines talks about the family tragedy of mental illness. He writes about his younger brother’s struggle with paranoid schizophrenia in a new memoir, My Brother’s Madness.

Weigh in: Have you been affected by a family member’s struggle with severe mental illness? If so, have you found a way to cope?

Event: Paul Pines will be speaking and signing books
Tuesday, November 27 at 7 pm
Book Culture
536 West 112th Street (between Broadway and Amsterdam)

My Brother’s Madness is available for purchase at amazon.com

Guests:

Paul Pines

Comments [7]

Kristy Wilson from Ellenville, NY

I genuinely pity anyone who did not have the wonderful opportunity to take one of Paul's classes, because the small, indispensable truths he offers here just hint at what his students were gifted with. Paul, I am so excited to read the book! And I agree with my brother, you were also the best teacher I had. I can't wait to learn more!

Apr. 08 2008 03:03 PM
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Rachel Bennett from NYC

How fortunate we are to listen to Paul Pines, who speaks with eloquence, intelligence,and compassion. It is painful to see those we love become isolated in a private, tortured world. Tragic that we, who love them the most, cannot free them from their depression and delusions. Many people turn away out of fear, frustration or anger. Yet, Paul Pines did not turn away. He opened, bravely, and suceeded in writing a book that honors Claude and the individual heart and reminds us that sometimes we don't get to understand completely, but can love instead. Thank you, Paul.

Nov. 24 2007 12:05 AM
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Lisa Bond from new york

This is a very good interview. Paul Pines, who is an exceptional writer and human being, has written a deeply moving and exquisite book.

Nov. 23 2007 04:15 PM
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Rob Wilson from South Pasadena, CA

Paul was my Literature professor in '93 and in retrospect he's become my favorite teacher. A generous heart, great mind, and all-around impressive guy. I'm glad to see this book is getting noticed.

Nov. 20 2007 12:23 PM
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Susie Friedman from San Francisco, California

Paul's book pays tribute and honors his brother Claude. It helps all who knew the "Claudes" in our own lives to express our appreciation, love and respect to "them."
Death ends a life, but not our relationship with that life.

I learned a lot about how to talk honestly to a person when they are alive and are delusional. And I learned how to honor them when they are gone.

Thanks, Paul Pines. I hope your book is a huge success.

Nov. 18 2007 01:28 PM
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Carol Ingersoll from northern NJ

I was sorry to come in at the end of this segment as I am VERY personally affected by a similar life situation.
I have ordered this book and not able to get to the signing. Does Mr. Pines have a practice near by the metro area and is he available via email or other for questions?

Nov. 16 2007 02:17 PM
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Anon from New York City, NY

My family's history of mental illness may not fall under the category of "severe" as the author's brother's diagnosis. But my life has been greatly affected by family members with mental illness. My father suffered from debilitating manic depression that led him to commit suicide when I was 7 years old. My mother suffered yearly breakdowns and hospitalizations throughout my childhood. And my youngest sister (3 of us) has struggled with severe bipolar disorder with pscycotic affect (seeing things/hearing voices) when she's in breakdown mode. I live with a constant awareness/fear that I might suffer the same. It's in the genes somehow right? I also have felt extreme guilt that my sister suffers with this illness to this day (she's 34, I'm 39 now) and why haven't I? My coping mechanism is to try to deal with things moment-to-moment, to not over-identify with my thoughts, to be as much in the present as possible, meditation, journal-writing. I used to drink & smoke a lot from an early age to cope, but it affected my health not long ago and switching to taking care of my health/body/mind has made a great improvement. I then am better able to handle what may come and I am in the process still of learning not to blame myself or to feel guilty. It's - put simply - challenging.

Nov. 16 2007 09:16 AM
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