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Silver Linings

Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Betty Rollin, TV journalist and the author of the books First, You Cry, Last Wish, and her newest, Here's the Bright Side: Of Failure, Fear, Cancer, Divorce, and Other Bum Raps (Random House, 2007), discusses the upsides that can sometimes accompany adversity.

Here's the Bright Side is available for purchase at Amazon.com

Betty Rollin's website


Comments

  • [1] Jeffrey Slott from Queens, NY May 22, 2007 - 10:53AM

    I am a type 1 diabetic of 40 years standing. Though at times it has been a pain in the you-know-what, I wouldn't trade the experience for any amount of wealth. Without going into overwhelming detail it has taught me the difference between what's real and what isn't. And if someone were to offer me a cure today, I would not take it.


  • [2] Ryan from Washington Heights, NYC May 22, 2007 - 11:01AM

    I suffered from a childhood medical condition that's left me with chronic arthritis and pain. While this has been the focusing event of my life -- I'm now a medical student -- I would never wish this on anyone, including myself.

    It is an extraordinary human capability to make sense of our situation and adapt within a sometimes trying environment, but no one should ever value suffering given the choice.

    Perhaps being fired from a job is one thing. But medical illness?


  • [3] ANONYMOUS from NYC May 22, 2007 - 04:02PM

    I think there's happiness only if one comes out okay at the end of all the suffering. If one does not, and the struggle continues, then where is the opportunity to perceive 'the bright side?'


  • [4] Andrea from Cranford, New Jersey May 22, 2007 - 07:26PM

    Like Betty, I am a breast cancer survivor. I am a much happier person, in part, because I had breast cancer. I more accepting of myself, I have better friends, I don't let as many "little" things bother me because they aren't "breast cancer". It has provided me with a perspective on life that allows me to focus more on the people and things that truly matter to me and allow me to make a difference. I do have several side-effects that I have to deal with every day that I wish I did not have to, but most people have things they are dealing with so I don't think I am unique in that only that mine are more visible.


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