That is a real tough question.

Three of my four adult children were at work in NYC. One son saw the second plane go in from an office window. I spent the day in NJ waiting to hear from them. They all made it to their homes.
But for the families of those whose husbands, wives, fathers, sons and daughters did't make it home, what do they want to hear?
When my husband was dying he said he wanted "When the Saints go Marching In".

Phyllis Sharpe