Marie

Last September, I moved to a foreign country, with a man I briefly met 17 years ago in Sumatra and who reappeared last year, after we had no contact for 15 years. I have no job(for the first time since middle school), my retirement funds are running low, I don't speak the language, and every other week his 3 very "free" children come for the weekend. Should I continue with this new life?