BJ

My grandfather's third wife passed away. She was 80. They'd known each other 17 years and were married for the last 10 or so (I think). He said they traveled together but lived apart because Yolanda insisted on her "own space" - a tiny Manhattan apartment. I had imagined her as aloof until we met that one time in 2010. When they came backstage to my dressing room, she seemed charming, really intelligent, so urban!